Deciding with Confidence

You know how to make decisions. Just not what guides them.

Deciding with Confidence is a group program for experienced solopreneurs whose businesses are running well, but for whom decisions have become noticeably more demanding.

In six weeks, you recognize why decisions have cost you so much energy. You decide consciously, you know why, and you like your reasons.

For self-leadership when experience no longer settles the question.

When experience no longer settles the question

Your business is running well.

You're experienced and successful, and you keep things running.  
And yet you notice that decisions feel different than they used to.

Something has changed.

You know you haven't become uncertain. Nothing is missing.
But you now see more connections, have more options, and understand the consequences of your decisions much more clearly.

With more experience, decisions get harder.

What you've long relied on hasn't become wrong. It still works.
But it no longer settles the question.

You know how to make decisions. You just no longer know what to base them on.

This rarely leads to a major inner conflict. It's more like an ongoing internal debate.
An internal weighing that never really concludes.
And even though everything looks fine on the outside, decisions cost more energy.

That can change.

Why making decisions takes more energy today

The more successful you are, the more consequences your decisions carry.

You can't see your decisions in isolation anymore.

What you decide doesn't stand alone. Every change has an impact on your business, on other people, and on yourself.
That makes decisions harder, even when they seem straightforward.

There's rarely just one good option.

Most of the time, there are several paths that could all work.
Your experience helps you assess risks. But it doesn't show you the solution.
Quite the opposite: It makes the choice even harder.

When it's unclear what you base your decisions on, they stay open.

You try to think of everything, keep everything in view.
For each option, you find good reasons for and against.
The search for the one right decision takes a lot of time and even more energy.

Decisions don't fail here because of a lack of courage, but because of missing reference points.

When the usual solutions stop working

You know you can make decisions. Until now, you had clear criteria and a framework for that.
But now it no longer feels that clear.

This is not about ability or discipline.

In this situation, most people try to organize themselves better. They learn time and self-management, or work on their discipline and motivation.  
But often it's about something else.

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There comes a point where you hesitate.

You keep doubting whether this is really the right decision. You're simply not sure.
Because all the thinking, weighing, and double-checking doesn't give you the the reference points you're looking for.

You try to replace missing clarity with control.

It might seem like you no longer trust yourself.
But that's not it.  
It's simply no longer clear what you can base your trust on right now.

Without clear reference points, you can't lead yourself.

This is where the group work begins.

You figure out what you want to base your decisions on, and you realize you can trust your judgment again.

What this group program does

(and what it doesn't)

In the group, I show you how you can think differently about decisions.

We work with concrete examples from your daily life. I show you where exactly you're getting stuck and how you can approach it differently.

You'll recognize:

  • which criteria you're currently using to decide,
  • which of them still work and which don't,
  • and what you can rely on instead.

In the end, you'll be able to make clear decisions again without getting stuck internally or overthinking endlessly.

What this program doesn't do:

  • It doesn't make decisions for you.
  • It doesn't tell you what's right.
  • It doesn't replace 1:1 work when a specific decision needs to be made.

This program doesn't give you ready answers. But it gives you the foundation to make clear decisions again.

What happens in the six weeks

Week 1: How you make decisions right now

You look at what actually happens when you decide, and why it costs so much energy.

Week 2: Why weighing pros and cons no longer works

You recognize why the approach you have always used has reached its limits. Not you. The approach.

Week 3: What keeps you from deciding

You see which expectations, beliefs and reactions are blocking you.

Week 4: Certainty comes from within

You understand why discomfort is a normal part of deciding, and you stop working against it.

Week 5: What you base your decisions on

You clarify which reference points guide your decisions.

Week 6: Owning your decisions

You decide consciously, you know why, and you like your reasons.

How we work in the group

The group is your place. You don't have to perform here.

You don't need to prepare or bring anything.
And you don't share anything you don't want to share.

I lead the sessions with focus.
I show concepts, ask questions, and make sure we stay on what matters.

We talk about real situations from your daily work.
About decisions, thoughts, or contradictions that keep coming up.

The group helps more than you might expect.

The questions from others often hit exactly the point where you get stuck yourself. We recognize things faster and more clearly when we can observe them in others.

Who this group is for

(and who it's not)

You'll quickly see whether this group is right for you.

The group is for you if...

  • your business is running well, but decisions feel harder
  • you notice that your previous standards are no longer enough
  • you want to learn to make clear decisions again
  • you're willing to work with specific examples
  • you enjoy learning with and from others

The group is not for you if...

  • you're looking for support with a specific, important decision
  • you expect quick solutions or fixed instructions
  • you're mainly focused on strategy, optimization, or growth right now
  • you don't have the headspace to engage with your decisions
  • you'd rather think through decisions alone than engage with a group

When 1:1 is the right next step

In the group program, you learn to make clear decisions again using everyday situations.
If you have a specific, important decision that you can't postpone, 1:1 is the right format.

You can find more about this program here:

What to expect from Deciding with Confidence

In six weeks, you recognize why decisions have cost you so much energy.
You decide consciously, you know why, and you like your reasons.

  • Duration: 6 weeks
  • Format: Online group via Zoom
  • Sessions: once a week, 75 minutes
  • Group size: up to 8 participants
  • Investment:  900 net

Your next step

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Interested?  

Book a Clarity Call.
In up to 45 minutes, we'll figure out whether this program is right for you or whether another format makes more sense.

You'll get a clear assessment and answers to all your questions.

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Barbara Sher Coach
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